Surprised by the title? No wonder, the wife and daughter of a president is called ‘First Lady’ and ‘First Daughter’, similarly the girl friend of a president can be termed as ‘First Girl Friend’. While eye-balls roll over First Girl Friend but what to say the about former Italian Super model, Carla Bruni and the present day girl friend of French president Nikolas Sarkozy.
By the way, the purpose of this article is not about getting the intimate details of Carla-Sarkozy relationship. However, the geo-political dynamics have some ramifications over this relationship. Lately French President was on a whirlwind tour of Middle East and South Asia. The trip that would have otherwise been very normal courtesy call for one head of state to other became somewhat marred by the lady accompanying Sarkozy. If Carla would have been the wife of French leader, the protocol officer at the host states would not require to sweat over the issue. However, girl friend, relationship challenged the protocol officers as what kind of protocol should be accorded to Carla. After minor debate all the Arab states of Middle East which Sarkozy visited accorded Carla as spousal reception.
The twist in this story came when on the last leg of his trip, Sarkozy aimed for India. The Indian protocol officers were caught in a classic Catch-22 situation. One one hand if they would accord Carla a spousal treatment, the Indian public would mull it and on the other hand if they raise some objection to her visit, that might cause some unpleasant repercussion in future Indo-French relationship. Though boy-friend, girl-freind thing is widely practised in the modern Indian cosmopolitans, it still has not obtained the general approval from the larger society sections there. Owing to this fear, Indian Foreign Ministry, told their counter parts in France that Carla is not welcome in India. This was a big stance by a poor nation to a rich and powerful one. Guess what, Sarkozy went ahead with his scheduled trip without his sweetheart. And he also signed a plethora of commercial agreements there with India.
The lessons learned from the above are following:
1: Sarkozy married Carla right after his trip. He learned that head of states doesn’t have the luxury to have conjugal relationships without wedlock.
2: India, as widely believed by her detractors in Pakistan that she is blindly following the Western life style have been proved wrong.
3: We can imagine how Pakistan would have reacted over this. Let me know what you think ? I guess, it would have been a big okay from the concerned people. In the unlikely, otherwise scenario European newspapers would have been full of terming Pakistan as a conservative society and a country with medieval ideals also there would have been some video clips depicting Pakistan as the worst male-chauvinistic society. Just a thought!
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